Recommended Reading

  • This is an excellent article from The Atlantic about Feedback Informed Therapy (FIT). Some of our clinicians use it and find it very helpful. Take a look. Tony Rousmaniere, What Your Therapist Doesn't Know.
  • If you're not afraid to get a little technical, Mona Dekoven Fishbane and Michele Scheinkman provide an excellent antidote for a complicated pattern in their 2004 Family Process article, The Vulnerability Cycle: Working with impasses in couples therapy
  • Are you struggling with a decline in sex drive? Are you very close to your spouse? Are you confused about the situation? Mating In Captivity, by Esther Perel offers some unexpected answers.
  • Dr. Sue Johnson offers some essential ideas on repairing deep emotional injuries including infidelity in her classic book Hold Me Tight.  This book offers concrete, experiential exercises to couples struggling to find forgiveness.
  • Dr. John Gottman and his wife, Julie Gottman, have been researching couples, doing therapy and training therapists with their groundbreaking method for many years. They have several books that are worth taking a look at.